Life · Motherhood

How to improve your chances of getting pregnant

After graduating from college, I worked at my parent’s senior health care center. While there, I met Rose, a physical therapist whom I became friends with. One day, while we were reviewing patient charts, she stopped what she was doing, turned to me, and said “have kids early.” “Huh? I’m only 21 and I’m not… Continue reading How to improve your chances of getting pregnant

Motherhood

The 5 unexpected postpartum physical changes you need to know about

Having a baby changes everything.  I expected stretch marks, residual baby weight, and dark circles under the eyes after having a baby, but there were also a few physical changes that I didn’t anticipate. 1. Losing eyelashes I expected to lose some of my hair after giving birth, but nobody told me about postpartum eyelash… Continue reading The 5 unexpected postpartum physical changes you need to know about

Life · Motherhood

5 children’s birthday party favors that last longer than 5 minutes

Most children’s birthday party favors have a play life of five minutes and will inevitably collect at the bottom of toy bins and later in landfills.  With my son’s 4th birthday party coming up, I was brainstorming for party favors that are more environmentally friendly and/or have a longer play life.  Here are 5 children’s birthday party favors… Continue reading 5 children’s birthday party favors that last longer than 5 minutes

Motherhood

Why I stopped buying educational toys for my children

In our achievement-driven society, many parents are trying their best to hasten the intellectual development of their children to give them an academic edge.  My sister-in-law told me that preschoolers in her community were already doing book reports.  At my son’s preschool, my husband overheard a parent telling the teacher that her three-year-old daughter can count to 100.  When he… Continue reading Why I stopped buying educational toys for my children

Life · Motherhood

Good reads: for life’s difficult moments

Sometimes when we are going through difficult situations that we are not ready to share with anyone, reading about other people’s challenging experiences can help to validate our feelings and make us feel a little less alone.  Here are a few good reads for some of life’s most trying times: Miscarriage Moms of special ones Deciding to put… Continue reading Good reads: for life’s difficult moments

Life · Motherhood

I never had to drink coffee until I became a mom

I have always enjoyed drinking coffee.  Back in the days when banks served coffee, any time my sister and I would go to the bank with our parents, we would make our own cups of coffee with 10% coffee, 50% milk, and 40% sugar.  We felt so grown up sipping our “coffee.” When coffee houses like Starbucks started… Continue reading I never had to drink coffee until I became a mom

Career · Motherhood

The best networking tip I learned from my 18-month-old

When I was pregnant with my second son, several people warned me that the new baby may be overshadowed by his big brother, who was a cute toddler with a magnetic personality.  As though it was a self-fulfilling prophecy, for the first 18 months of my younger son’s life, he was out-shined by his charismatic older brother.  As a baby,… Continue reading The best networking tip I learned from my 18-month-old